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Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy: I am married to a smart, beautiful woman. We have a young daughter and live in the city ...

College Kids Don’t Know How to ‘Do It’

First, Rush Limbaugh was shocked that Georgetown law students had sex (much less found time to). Then, just last week ...

Murphy's Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy: My sister, “Sally,” is going through a separation. She and her husband of 19 years, “Tim,” split up ...

Between the Sheets: His Time Alone

One of the questions most frequently asked by women is, “Why does my boyfriend/husband still masturbate when we have ...

Murphy's Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Mourning the school lottery results; having a husband who chooses exercise over family time.

In Between the sheets

Sometimes it seems like there’s nothing better than taking a trip with that special someone, spending the day seeing ...

Murphy's Love

This week, Stacy Murphy offers more advice in answer to our interpersonal queries: Her status updates make his blood boil, and how to navigate your friends' new marriage.

Between the Sheets: To Wed or Not to Wed?

There are more people talking about the value and sanctity of marriage than there are actually people standing before one another saying, “I do.” Recent studies that revealed that marriage rates were down in the United States — lower than they’ve ever been, in fact.

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

How do you tell your new partner that you have a disorder? Why do the holidays seem to reignite the passion among old flames? With a professional eye for our personal challenges, Stacy Murphy weighs in.

Between the Sheets

Greetings and welcome to 2012! I hope you have had a wonderful holiday and celebrated the New Year in your ...

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy:

I am a working mom in her 30s. My marriage is strong. My family ties are good. I ...

Give The Greatest Gift: You

Chrismahanukwanzakah is upon us once again, and regardless of your religious beliefs or cultural traditions, December can be a wonderfully ...

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy,

My younger sister just announced that she is pregnant, following a short relationship with a guy she is ...

Thankful to be Thankful

Thanksgiving is the time of year when we are reminded to give thanks for the wonderful things in our lives ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy,

I am writing about something that happened several months ago, but it’s not getting any better, so ...

In Between the sheets: A Turn-On for Old People

Phyllis Diller sure has an imagination, doesn’t she? “The best contraceptive for old people is nudity.” What was she ...

Murphy's Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

**Dear Stacy,

My husband has lost his job. I have been doling out extra hugs, pats on the back, etc ...

Between the sheets: The Secret World of STDs in Assisted Living Facilities

For what seems like forever, I’ve been working to raise awareness about the alarming increase in STDs in the ...

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy: First the good news: we got engaged! Now the bad news: both sets of parents are already starting ...

In Between the Sheets: Dating is Like Job Hunting

Living in D.C. is a lot like living under a rock and living in the public eye, all at ...

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Stacy Notaras Murphy answers readers' questions about love and relationships.

Health Blogs 101: Where to go for the Best Recipes and Advice

Bridget Belfield picks her favorite recipes from health food blogs.

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Stacy Notaras Murphy is a licensed professional counselor and certified Imago Relationship therapist practicing in Georgetown. Her website is TherapyGeorgetown.com. This column is meant for entertainment only, and should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling. Please send your relationship questions to stacy@georgetowner.com.

Sex Over Fifty

Dr. Dorree Lynn, PhD, is a psychologist and life coach in Georgetown and author of Sex for Grownups: Dr. Dorree Reveals the Truths, Lies, and Must-Tries for Great Sex After 50. She is AARP’s Media “Sexpert” and has been featured on ABC, MSNBC, CNN, Fox News and VH1. Visit her website: DrDorreeLynn.com.

Scandinavian Midsummer: Feast the Night Away

Swedish cuisine is the ultimate “nouvelle” cuisine. It is simple, fresh, and is naturally local and seasonal. It’s elegant, yet down-to-earth, which is also a perfect description of the Swedish people, and even Swedish design.

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Stacy gives relationship advice for wives of gamers and those affected by recession.

Granny Gets Her Groove On

Growing up should be fun. It should be exciting to get old, if for no other reason than it gives us an opportunity to cut loose with nothing to lose. There’s no reason why we can’t look sexy, even if we’re faking it. We still feel sexy. We still think about sex. We still enjoy having sex! There is no rule that says you have to be old just because you’ve gotten older!

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy:

My wife and I have separated after 12 years of marriage. We have done the whole couples counseling ...

Acupuncture: A Tradition of Wellbeing

“You might bend down to pick up a pen and hurt your back, but that’s not why you hurt your back,” says Sung Up Hong. “There is a history and a reason behind that problem with deeper roots than what you see and feel on the outside.” That is the goal of acupuncture, says Hong, a third-generation licensed acupuncturist: to find the root cause of the problem and treat the patient holistically.

The Raw Food Revolution: Green Yourself

In April of 2009, Elizabeth Petty was diagnosed with breast cancer. She began eating a raw food diet and, now cancer free, has merged her career with her lifestyle, creating a platform to raise awareness of this remarkable, beneficial approach to health.

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Dear Stacy,

I find myself in an awkward situation. My stepbrother (my stepmom’s son) is getting married to a wonderful woman and my husband and I couldn't be more thrilled. The problem? She is turning into a bit of a bridezilla

Spring Cleaning: Sprucing Up Your Heart, Mind and Soul

Spring is the time of year I make an assessment of my life, my achievements, my mistakes, and how my ...

Murphy’s Love: Advice on Intimacy and Relationships

Hi Stacy, I was in a very intense relationship on and off for nearly eight years with a woman who ...

Eat More Fiber? That Depends!

The Harvard study found that, “dietary fiber may reduce the risk of death from cardiovascular, infectious and respiratory diseases,” published ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy,

I have been married six years and have two kids: a daughter who is four and a son ...

Revolutionary Eating

We have all heard the cautions to avoid processed foods—those grocery items with long, incomprehensible ingredient lists. However, the ...

The Science of Slimming, Satisfying, Sumptuous Soups

I love soups… Warm… Filling… Comforting… Psychologically Satisfying. What could be better right now than curling up with a hearty ...

Communication Is Not the Key

Yes, you read that correctly! People always say communication is the key to improving your relationship, but clearly, that’s ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy:

I have been dating the same woman for two years. We’re both about to turn 30 and ...

Successful Resolutions

People are more successful at achieving their New Year’s Resolutions than widely believed. In fact, a study found the ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy:

I’m a 56-year-old divorcee dating an about-to-be 66-year-old widower. We have been dating for nearly a year ...

The Great Joy Ride

Wanna know a secret? Grownups, even some very grownup grownups, are playing...with sex toys! In fact, for couples and ...

Holiday & Party Strategies

The social butterflies among us are very fortunate in some ways. They’re often out and about, meeting new friends ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy:
My girlfriend is pressuring me to get married, and I don’t know what to do. We’re both 28 and have been dating exclusively for five years. She is the love of my life, but I just don’t see the need to get married, at least not yet. Both her parents and mine are divorced—less than amiably—and I always promised myself I wouldn’t get into that situation. My girlfriend and I each have our own places but spend most nights together. I think moving between houses is kind of fun, but she hates it. We have all the commitments of a married couple—holidays, vacations, friends in common—but without the messy issues of combining households and finances (which she’s not so good at, by the way). I don’t want to ruin a good thing by forcing myself down the aisle. How can I explain this without sounding like a commitment-phobic jerk? So far, I’ve avoided the issue as much as I can.

Sweets Strategies: the Science Behind Cravings and What to do About Them

Halloween can trip up even the most conscientious dieter. Last year, this happened to a client who had lost and kept off 20 pounds successfully. The Halloween trap caught her by surprise. She bought several bags of Snickers, her favorite candy bar, and began a binge that didn’t end until the candy was gone – long before Trick or Treating even began! That brought her up a couple of pounds. The holidays came and before she knew it, she had gained almost ten pounds before winter was out.

How to Choose a Therapist

The decision to see a therapist can be a hard one to make, as I discussed in my last column, “It’s All In Your Head” (georgetowner.com/living). Once you’ve made that decision, the next challenge is finding the right therapist. How do you go about that?

Murphy’s Love

Dear Stacy:
I am about to tell my parents about my new boyfriend, “Tom,” and I could really use your help. I’ll cut to the chase: I’m 26 and he’s 48. We met online, and he lives in southern Maryland.

Fall's Delicious Bounty

The coming of fall is symbolized for each of us by different events and moments: the first turning of leaves, a bracing snap of cool air, rediscovering a favorite sweater, children returning to school, the palpable shortening of September and October days.

Between the Sheets

An estimated 20 percent of American couples do not sleep in the same bed. This is not necessarily a sign of a poor relationship. With age, people are willing to experiment and create their own comfort zones.

How Can You Tell if it's Time to See a Therapist?

Life is messy and often confusing. Sometimes you’re up, and then you’re down. You have a plan, and ...

Murphy's Love

Dear Stacy: My wife is pregnant with our first child, due next spring. We just reached the 12-week milestone and ...

Back-to-School Lunch Box Ideas from Washington’s Top Chefs

Inspire your taste buds (and educate your kids) with the help of D.C.'s culinary elite.

It's All in Your Head

In a new column about psychology on the cutting edge, Renee Garfinkel muses on the sexiest color and sexiest hormone.

Murphy’s Love

Is it okay to be in your 20s and still have a V card?

Between the Sheets

Married 32 years and no orgasm? There's a remedy for that.

Cool as a Cucumber

It's hot! Add berries to your cereal, peaches alongside your salad or cucumbers on your sandwich for a cool, tasty treat.

Between the Sheets

Many people say that as they have aged, they have evolved new ways of being sexual. Instead of the super-stud, wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am sex of their youth, they have experimented with different permutations, positions and possibilities.

Murphy’s Love

What happens when your new lifestyle as a parent feels like you signed up to be a servant?

Soothing Summer Sensations

In this issue of "Is the Price Right?" we found the best prices on summer skin goodies from Lush, Sephora, Blue Mercury and CVS.

Exercising This Summer? Drink This

Just ask dietitian Katherine Tallmadge: Avoiding water loss effects a huge improvement in athletic performance, increases energy levels and decreases recovery time.

Murphy's Love

Growing pains, a new lease on love (with a twist) and a marriage on the rocks. Georgetown Imago therapist Stacy Murphy comes to the rescue.

Between the Sheets

Who says you can’t teach an old kisser some new tricks?

Dining Out — Without the Bulge

For some, eating out is a special occasion. For millions of Americans, however, it’s a way of life. And it can present appreciable health problems.

Murphy’s Love

Stacy Notaras Murphy is a licensed professional counselor and certified Imago relationship therapist practicing at the Imago Center of DC in Georgetown.

Forever Alchimie

Georgetown is known for having many gems and specialty stores, and Alchimie Forever is not one to be forgotten. Located ...

Slimming Down? Books for Dieters

Getting reliable nutrition or diet information is a challenge in today’s information super-highway. Katherine Tallmadge gives her picks of the thousands of diet books out there.

In Good Company

When we were little, our friends and social network influenced our choices, thoughts and behaviors. Has anything really changed since then?

Getting Your Vitamins?

Like most health information these days, there seems to be a great amount of confusion when it comes to vitamins.

Eating Right

While it’s not always advised to supplement with individual vitamins, it is important to eat a diet rich in ...

Thanksgiving: A Life-giving Holiday

The coming of the holidays, for each of us, is symbolized by different events and moments: the first turning of ...

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